I've seen him here and there and I always felt he was flirting with me. And maybe he was, for all I know.
I finally got up the courage, with my good friend A by my side, not letting me go anywhere until I did, to ask him to interview him for the paper.
I know, not even a date, but an interview. But interviews I can do. And I'd been hearing that he was married even though he didn't wear a wedding ring and flirted with me. So I wanted to be able to find out if he was single or married without putting myself too far out there. I'm not totally ready for that yet. But I'll get there.
I just want to date. I'd love to get kissed. Small pleasures, I know, but I've been completely single since the day after my daughter was conceived.
So the interview went wellish. I'm writing a community spotlight on him and he's so nice and quiet that it was difficult to get a lot out of him and since I don't know him at all, really, I didn't know which questions to ask him to get the right answers out. I finally did get something useable, but it wasn't easy.
In that, I found out that he was married, but I also found that he's way too much like my EX. Quiet and shy and not sure what he's thinking. I'm SO not doing that one again.
Even though it might be a bit obnoxious, I really want to be with someone who doesn't hide what he's thinking. I don't want a sensitive water works, but someone who's upfront with what he wants.
I was raised to debate/discuss things and need someone that can rival me on that.
I'm not sure that this man would meet those criteria, though it doesn't matter -- married men are not eligible, no exceptions.
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